The fallback option was the only one available on hostgator.
Per netlify’s recommendation I made www.patriciaswansonvo.com the primary domain.
(though kinda confused why netlify recommends www. as primary domain then defaults to the opposite)
The warnings to wait for things to configure have gone away.
There are many A records that already existed with names including @, autodiscover, autoconfig, mail, etc. Should I delete the A record with name=@ value=162.241.194.62? Or one with another name? or all?
@Sage It’s ultimately up to you to manage your own DNS.
The other DNS records you mention are probably unnecessary, (if you don’t plan to use anything on hostgator), but I can’t advise that, it’s for you to determine.
My only recommendation at this stage is to delete the A record I pointed out.
Which as per your last message, would be the one with the name @ and value 162.241.194.62
I made the change but Hostgator is doing weird things on their end. I delete the A record name=@ value=162.241.194.62 but refresh and it’s still there. Then I contact their support and while chatting it looks like A record name=@ value=162.241.194.62 is deleted. But then I refresh after chat and now there is:
A record with name=@ value=162.241.194.59
A record with name=* value=162.241.194.59
and A record with name=@ value=75.2.60.5 is gone.
But they also mention waiting 8 or 24 hours for things to propagate so don’t know if it’s just wrong or need to wait.
Losing hope
Agree with everything @nathanmartin has stated above @sage. The wrong record record exists. The TTL needs setting at the smallest period possible (at least for now.)
If you are unable to make the necessary changes yourself, you’ll need to contact them to make them for you (though from the sound of it, banging your head against a brick wall would do you as much good as Hostgater Support.)