IP conflict - netlify and 185.230.63.107

As per configure external DNS documentation and this DNS quickstart the only IP address you should use for a domain apex is 75.2.60.5. As you are using Cloudflare for DNS you can use the apex load balancer as a flattened CNAME record instead of IP address apex-loadbalancer.netlify.com.

You need to remove all other A, AAAA, and CNAME records for the apex and have only the IP address or load balancer CNAME.