Site built with Hugo/Blogdown is no longer functional or even displaying properly

No need to pay for additional support, but you will have to make changes to your site.

The issue is that many of your assets aren’t loading (css/js).

While you haven’t changed anything, Netlify did change something, which perfectly explains it:

Since that deprecation you can no longer load a URL like:
https://rileyking.netlify.com/css/side-menu.css

Instead it must be:
https://rileyking.netlify.app/css/side-menu.css

This also explains the broken links:
https://rileyking.netlify.com/post/learning-from-failure-nitinol-fracture-mechanics-in-r/ (broken)
https://rileyking.netlify.app/post/learning-from-failure-nitinol-fracture-mechanics-in-r/ (works)

To fix you need to adjust your site so it no longer references netlify.com

You could do this by changing all of your links to Root relative

So instead of an absolute URL of:

https://rileyking.netlify.com/css/side-menu.css

You change the reference to:

/css/side-menu.css

If you cannot easily do that, then changing the .com to .app would suffice.